That thin line between Relationship and Breakup

Priya Seran
3 min readMay 9, 2020

What turns two individuals to a couple? What matters the most in a relation? What makes the relationship strong? How to overcome difficult situation? What makes it easy to face challenges? What ..? What.. ?

Its all about.. ❤❤❤ STAYING TOGETHER ❤❤❤

Have you ever felt that Adrenalin rush? Have you ever felt special to someone’s eyes?

Whenever we meet a new person, the conversation will be sweeter and sugar coated.

As the day passes,

month moves,

everything changes.

Spending time together changes; caring for one another changes.

May it be your friend, your beloved boyfriend/girlfriend/husband; Irrespective of the relationship people would have come across this situation with someone.

Actually,

It is not the love that breaks; it is the insecurity that is been shattered

It is not the care that got reduced; it is the trust that got developed.

As human beings we tend to be careful and polite to those we don’t know. So that appears to be sweet during our first meet. Because, no one could act weird or crazy or arrogant to the person we haven’t talked to before. Eventually the friendship builds, you will crack jokes, prank the other; tease one another; care for each other; roam together and so on. This is how every relationship starts to build. Once you get comfortable, the true self will show up. It’s actually not going to be the true self in all the cases. Just because we know a person so well and believe that person will stand by you in all the hardships, our mind starts taking advantage and focuses on building a future with that person. The opposite also happens that people might feel insecure if you would leave and act weird. I can be anything but it is just going to be the result of love. Any relationship will be really nice at the beginning, once it enters that mid zone things are going to seem a bit different.

It is a fact that the way you showcased your love will not be the same as compared to the good old days. Many misunderstand this situation that they are no longer in love, but your partner might be dreaming about building a wonderful future with you and will be working on it. So first try talking to them about your concerns, help them understand how you feel. Walking away, going apart is not a solution. One who understands this and tries to tackle the problems within themselves is going to survive in the relationship.

Many thinks that sitting all day next to each other, holding hands and roaming together is only love.

The answer is a big NOOOO. It is all about sustaining your love throughout and creating a happy picture till the end.

Everybody has their own personal space. Understand and give them that and you will all be happy together.

Above all its LOVE !!!

❤❤❤

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